With a background in digital marketing, I naturally stay updated on what’s trending in the media. I recently came across a trend where moms were opening up about how they felt like they lost their spark after becoming a mom. There was a lot of conversation around it and honestly, I can relate. Postpartum was a really tough time for me and I definitely lost myself in motherhood for a while. I knew that something had to change and I needed to regain confidence and balance. Below are a few things I have intentionally done that have helped me feel like “myself” again.
Consistently Working Out
This was an easy one. Working out has always been one of my go-to stress relievers, but I can’t say I’ve always been the most consistent. Prioritizing fitness is my way of doing something just for me—not as a mom, daughter, sister, or girlfriend, but for myself.
Press-On Nails
Press-on nails have been the best DIY investment for me! Because toting a busy toddler in the salon is no fun. For the longest, I only used BTart box nails, and they are so beginner-friendly and easy to use. But lately, I have gravitated to Etsy where I’ve found some of the most gorgeous, customized designs. I am constantly getting compliments and the nails are high-quality! Doing my nails myself has become my little self-care ritual and it gives me the time to unwind while also making me feel more put together.
Comfy and Cute Clothes
It took me a while to find my new sense of style as a mom because for a while all I cared about was comfort and oversized. Two-piece matching sets became my best friend. I slowly started to be able to tolerate jeans but for the longest, I had to mentally prepare for 5 business days before wearing jeans. Then I discovered Abercrombie and Fitch jeans and now that’s all I own! They’re not the most affordable, but if you catch them on sale, they’re worth it! The fit is amazing and super comfortable and they’ve become my go-to for feeling both comfy and put together. I’m wearing a pair from the Curve Love collection below.
Being intentional about self-care and prioritizing the things that make me happy has completely changed how I feel about myself which allows me to show up as a better mom. It’s so easy to put yourself last or feel too exhausted to pour into your own well-being, but I’ve learned that taking care of myself isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity even if it is something small. When I feel good, I parent better, love better, and simply *am* better.
