My first post of 2025 is here, and it might be a little predictable—focused on the changes I want to make as a mom. But the best part? I’m already making it happen.
The breaking and remolding that motherhood has forced me to experience has been life-changing. It has forced me to look in the mirror multiple times creating a deep desire to become the best version of myself—not just for me, but for my son because he truly deserves it. Below are a few realizations I have had along with the desire to grow and improve.
Gentleness is Strength
After years of therapy, I’ve come to understand how hard I can be on myself, holding onto unrealistic expectations. It is something I’ve worked hard to change and improve every day. As a mom, I’ve realized how important it is not to pass that same pattern on to my son.
“When you speak to them, remember you are creating their inner voice.”
I have focused on prioritizing patience, kindness, and gentleness—even during meltdowns, tantrums, and tough, frustrating moments. Discipline is essential, but I’m committed to grounding it in love and gentleness.
Teaching Christ-Centered Values
God did his big one with the volume of surrendering I have experienced in this season. This shift has forced me to let go of anything that pulls me outside of His will. My life is a true testimony full of faith and grace. I plan to continue to prioritize Christ in me and my son’s life. Introducing him to faith has tremendously influenced my parenting style shaping how I teach, guide, and nurture him. One of my favorite resources of books that have helped me to teach my son about Christ is here.
Prioritizing Health: Cooking More
This was probably the easiest to start but staying consistent has been the real challenge. I’ve always been mindful of the type of foods I choose for my own healthy lifestyle and gym routine. However, when it came to my son’s meals, I often leaned on convenience to avoid the struggles of picky eating. Letting go of this mindset has forced me to be more intentional about planning weekly meals and prioritizing the time and effort required to make it happen. It’s a small victory but it’s rewarding knowing he is getting balanced, nutritious meals without a surplus of processed foods.
Reflecting on these realizations has pushed me to become more intentional, patient, and present not just for my son but for myself as well. I am not only shaping the kind of mother I want to be but also creating a foundation of resilience and love for my son.
